Sunday, March 16, 2014
Salman Khan: Let's use video to reinvent education
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Monday, March 10, 2014
people who I met in 2013
I had a sabbatical year luckily so I could go to South America to have a vacation with my husband in 2013. Before going there I heard of lots of scary news. However it turned out that South America was an amazing place to visit. I met lots of good people and had good memories. Actually I met more people who I could not forget however some of them did not have chances to take pictures, some pictures I lost...
Thursday, June 13, 2013
Open your heart to the world
Where to speech: Bongmyeng Elementary School (My school
which I will be back next year)
Boys and girls! Good to see you again and I am very glad to be here.
Today I want to share
stories of people who live in the world. First, I’d like to introduce Hwang
min-woo, popularly known as “Little PSY”, appeared in “Gangnam style”. Do you like him? I know you like him very
much. Then, have you ever heard of his crying? I read some articles about his
crying and the Akpeulers. His mother came from Vietnam and got married his
father who is Korean so he belongs to be multicultural family. Because of
multicultural background, he was being bullied at his previous school and now
he is suffering from online racial hatred. He said he found difficult to cope
with insults against his parents. Do you know what her mother’s nationality is?
She is Korean. Some people wrote comments “Min-woo should leave from Korea.” Why
do they think like that? They refuse to accept multicultural families as members
of Korean. Do you think Min-woo is not Korean?
How about In Soon-i? She is mixed blood, her father was a US
Armed Forces in Korea and she never saw his father. She has struggled against
people’s bias of mixed blood entire her life. Now she is one of the most popular
singers. Do you think In Soon-I is Korean or not?
Korea has a five thousand-years-old history,
and we are racially homogeneous country. We tried to protect our country from enemies
to keep our pure blood so it is familiar living only us. However now we live in
21st century, people move all around world to study, to do their
business, to travel, to live in another country, to get jobs, to marry and so
on. Due to these reasons Korean multicultural
families are increasing so there are lots of In Soon-I’s, Min-woo’s in our society. They are not strangers anymore
they are our friends, neighborhoods so we need to change our point of view to
keep face with the rapid changes in the world.
I’d like to introduce a woman who was born in Japan and got
married to a Korean man. She has Korean nationality however she was born in
Japan and had to grow up in Japan so she got a special Japanese green card. When
she got married to a Korean man she realized that she does not have Korean ID
even though she is Korean. Because of her Japanese green card she cannot obtain
Korean ID. Why she cannot have Korean ID even though she is Korean? According
to Korean law she has to give up Japanese green card to get Korean ID. Do you
know why some Korean who lives in Japan has special Japanese green card?
Because their ancestor had to be taken to Japan during Japanese colonial and
after gained independence from Japan in 1945, they could not come back to Korea
some reasons, however they wanted to keep Korean nationality and to preserve
Korean tradition, food, spirits, and so on. Getting Japanese nationality was probably
easy way to live in Japan however they kept their pride as Korean. Now their
grand children face some difficult living in Korea like her. She has a son
however her son cannot get Korean nationality because she has green card. Is
her son Korean or not? How do you think about that?
There is lots of Koreans, pure Koreans, mixed blood Koreans,
naturalized Koreans, overseas Koreans thank to globalization. We cannot insist
only pure Koreans are Koreans anymore so move toward to accept all kinds of Koreans
as Korean and embrace them like our siblings, friends, neighborhoods from the
bottom of our heart.
Boys and girls! Have you ever heard of minors and nurses who went to Germany
in 1960’s and 1970’s? After Korean War Korea was one of the poorest countries,
we did not have enough food, materials so our government exported minors and
nurses to Germany. They saved most of their income and sent it their families
in Korea to feed them, to educate their siblings. Thanks to their sacrifices
our economies boosted and their families lived. Do you think how they adapted
in Germany? They had to stick it out surrounding by totally different environment,
food, and people. We could guess as foreigners they faced lots of difficult and
their jobs were not easy. Why they could go to Germany? Because the jobs were
hard and dirty so no one wanted to work, that was why Germany government to
accept to import Korean workers as migrant workers however Korean minors and
nurses worked hard they did their best for their families who left behind.
Boys and girls! Our city, Gimhae is the second largest city
which has migrant workers in Korea so it is easy to see foreigners on the
street. Why they came to Korea? Like Korean minors and nurses who went to
Germany in 1960’s and 1970’s they came to Korea with Korean dream to support
their families. Nowadays most of Korean avoids applying for hard, dirty works
so the companies want to hire migrant workers who want to work willingly. Migrant
workers save their income to support their families that is why they came to
Korea far away from their home countries. They have to work hard and to stick
it out surrounding by totally different environment, food, and people like what
Korean minors and nurses did 40 years ago in Germany. From German’s point of
view Korea was a small and poor country in East Asia and some of European has a
tendency to have white supremacy so as migrant workers the Korean workers had
some tough time I guess. How they survived in Germany? Like most of Asian
migrant workers they thought of their own families who left behind, I guess
they had no choice but worked hard. Now you can understand what migrant workers
situation in Korea. Some of company owners who hired migrant workers are not
nice to their employees because they came from poor countries. Sometimes they
hit their employees and insult them. How do you feel about this? We have to embrace migrant workers as our
partners and neighbors because we invite them to work.
Boys and girls please open your heart to the world and
embrace people from other countries and live together happily. Thank you for
your listening and
have a wonderful day!
http://ojs8.ohmynews.com/NWS_Web/View/at_pg.aspx?CNTN_CD=A0001813897 married to a Korean
http://terms.naver.com/entry.nhn?cid=3426&docId=1582438&mobile&categoryId=3426
minors and nurses who went to Germany in 1960’s, 1970’s
Friday, June 7, 2013
Multiculturalism in our society
When I start to write this reflection, I think of the site
of “from Korea with love”. So I search it in the internet. http://chrissantosra.wordpress.com/
I love her stories, they gave me lots of
emotions: fun, adorable, touched, funny,
sad, angry, furious, sad, frustrated, sorry and embarrassed. When I read her
stories, I usually looked back on myself as a Korean and as a human. She is
from the Philippines and lives in Korea with her parents-in-laws. If you read her stories, you can feel what her
feeling’s is living in Korea as a foreigner especially as a South East Asian.
Recently the population of foreigners is increasing because
of marriage, laborers from outside of Korea however Korean society is not ready
for welcoming them as a part of us not for them but for mixed blood Korean as
well. Actually I thought we Korean were moving forward as a member of international
society so our attitude toward foreigners was changing gradually. However when
I heard of little Psy’s new, I was disappointed. Homogeneity society
is a kind of a hindrance to accept multiculturalism.
I know some multicultural families in Gimhae, when I had met
them; most of their children were infants, or no children so most of their
concerns about Korean language or how to adapt Korean life with their in-laws
or their husbands. Now their children go to elementary schools or kindergartens
so their concerns’ are changing to raise their children properly however it
seems difficult for them. As a Korean parent I am having a difficult time to
raise my own kids properly, I am not sure what I do for my kids, then as
foreigners how difficult they are. Mothers’ Korean seem good as foreigners, however
that is not enough as mothers. Mother has to deal with her children and their
homeroom teachers and it is not easy for them. If their children speak English or tagalog well they could communicate well, in the reality they cannot speak well none of them. I guess that when their children
go to middle school or high school, it can be social issues.
I heard about an international marriage policy which foreign
spouse has to pass Korean proficiency test to get married to Korean to prevent language barrier
between Korean and foreign spouses. If someone who cannot speak Korean is not
allowed to get married to Korean, the idea is funny.
Early this year I met two factory workers who wanted to
change their companies because the company did not pay regularly. Because of
that they were suffering for a few months so they needed to help. It worked
well so they could release from the company and try to find new company. That
time I realized that the policy for foreign laborers’ finding job was changed,
before they could pick companies which they want to work. Now they do not have
a choice they just register their name on the finding job list then companies
which need to hire workers choose workers and call them. They have to wait for call from companies, it
moved back.
I know Korean government make some policy for multi-cultural
families and there are few Korean spouses who are suffering from their foreign wives.
However it is time to move forward together so government has to figure out how
we can change our view of multiculturalism including immigrant workers and
foreign wives and so on. I have to go to bed, it means I have to review it
tomorrow.
Thursday, May 9, 2013
I would like to study related with Multicultral Families(Part#2)
I would like to study related with Multicultral Families(Part#2)
I am volunteering for immigrant workers including multicultural families. I started it as a
Korean teacher for immigrant workers who were suffering from their work places with language barriers and cultural differences after that I taught korean culture for brides of multicutural families to help them adapting their families for a short time. However I had to take care of my family and my work so it was burden to me to spend every sundays and I was suffering from the relationships between volunteers who started to establish the community so I quitted it. Over time I realized that volunteering is just volunteering so I do not need to take it too serious and I just do whatever I can do and I do not need to take care of others business. So I have joined the community again as an assistant of labor counselor which I am not good at it though.
From this background of mine I would like to study how to take care of multicultural families in Korean society. I have met some families who are worried about their children, family financial problems, the relationships between spouses. Most of them live in rural area and have some problems and their children are growing up so they face or will face some problem with studying and going through puberty. I would like to help them.
I am reading a paper of Multicultural families in Korean rural farming communities, they researched about multicultural families' reality and suggested some. While reading it I learned some information which I did not know before. So I would like to research some papers and books related with multicultural families and figure out what is the best way to help them with interview multicultural families and experts. Actually I have met some filipinos who could speak Korean well so I thought they could manage their business well like Korean however I have to admit they have some difficulties to communicate with officers and the papers while I worked with few of them. The reality and assumption has some gap. If I am fully supported I would like to study and survey for their benefit like above. I have to admit I am not helpful for them right now however I will figure out what I can do for them someday.
Friday, May 3, 2013
Now it is time to move forward with our neighbors including foreigners
Now it is time to move forward with our neighbors including foreigners
When I was a high school student I had a friend who was sorry for her gender, I was too young to understand why she had that idea. However while I was growing up I realized what her thought was totally. Korea is paternal society so only man could hand down their families that was why having boys was crucial matters all the Korean families. Women had no power in their families only men could decide all the matters in their families. Of course children had no power or no rights to have a voice, obedience was a virtue.
We Koreans had to struggle with our extreme poor in the past. Korean War devastated our land, we had to boost our economy with shortage of resources so we had to endure the hard time all together under the name of "tightening our belts all together". It required to have frugal lifestyle, to accept low salaries, working early age and a long work hour, to allow restricting human rights under the name of sacrifice for families, country. We spread those of ideas easily because Confucianism is deeply engraved on our mind, we respect the virtues of Confucian ideas of harmony, royalty, respect and so on.
There was another idea which gave huge impact on Korean, it was anticommunism. Korea was divided two countries due to Korean War so communism was kind of sinful meaning in South Korea in those days, so someone who has a different opinion of North Korea could not live in South Korea including one's family. Sometimes Korean government took advantage of it to control people so speaking out something against the government was extremely dangerous.
I guess those of two things contributed to make people uncomfortable; pointing out different direction or having a different voice with the others. In this circumstance moving forward to get over poverty and communism all together was only matter so no one could have different voices. Freedoms of expression and press, assembly and association were not allowed. Having a different idea or voice was taboo because it caused huge problems not only a person who was a kind of hindrance of the movement but also the whole family. Silence was a virtue, eloquence was not, Modesty was a virtue, outstanding was not.
I was growing up in those days, I had to obey my parents, teachers, all the elderly. Even though when they did not do properly I could not say anything. Back talking and answering "no" was considered rebellious, whenever I saw not proper behaviors of grown ups I doubted the idea why children could not have their own idea, and why grown ups could not keep their words. That is why I encouraged my children and my students having their own voices, gave them room to create their own ideas, make them willing to express their own ideas. I believed that it would work well. They can speak their own ideas freely however they do not look back themselves properly just saying without doing what they say or without considering others, insisting only their rights ignoring their obligation. I could not recognize the value of confucianism morality, harmony, respect and so on. Confucian ideas is engraved on my mind deeply so I do know what proper behavior and mind clearly so I do not have any problems however I looked over the value of it so I focused on autonomy of individuals. What I noticed is that the balance of confucian ideas and autonomy is important. Now I am trying to teach my students and my children the value of confucianism for building upright character, I feel if I do not explain details they do not know how to behave properly.
Korea was one of the poor countries so we looked up developed countries. Most of developed countries were in Europe and North America because of that most of Koreans had a stereo type of caucasian I think. During the process of modernization we tried to obtain western stuffs, accept foreign culture indiscriminately. I guess this kind of concept causes the different attitude toward caucasian foreigners and the other foreigners(mostly asian), it is wrong concept so we have to change that attitude as soon as possible I think. Whenever I heard of that kind of attitude I am really sorry for them and I'd like to apologize what they did. It is really shame.
On the other hand we underestimated our own culture and stuffs so neglected to preserve our tradition or abandoned it. We have realized that we have lots of precious things and tradition so nowadays we have tried to preserve and pass on it. I think I was one of them so I thought korean stuffs were outdated, replaced them with foreign ones which seemed reasonable and modern including system, ideas, customs and so on. I do not think what we have is not worthy anymore. I have a dream to live in Han-ok which is Korean traditional house and I believe someday I could make it.
Actually I was not proud of being Korean. I think some Koreans thought only from our point of view so it could make people uncomfortable. (ex. pushing people do something quickly even though it is not relevant for them or for their sake, do not respect others thinking or idea sometimes not ignoring others but helping others and so on) We were in hurry to boost our economy with sacrifice our rights, postpone our happiness for a long time. It made us to be accustomed to do everything quickly, look only ahead pursuing our goal, now it is time to consider our neighbors including foreigners. I think we have to try hard to move forward with poor people, weak people, disabled people, multi-cultural families and so on to make better world for all of us.
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